Posts Tagged ‘ALS’

The Good Fight

“Never doubt that a small group of thoughtful, committed citizens can change the world. Indeed, it is the only thing that ever has.”  Margaret Mead

Homecare Advocate: The Good Fight (ALS)Most of last night was spent learning about Tim LaFollette, a young, talented, witty musician who was diagnosed with ALS (Lou Gehrig’s Disease) in ’09 at 29.  And his friends who decided that they were going to do something about it.

As I blogged in an earlier post, there is no cure for ALS.  Tim was all too familiar with this–both his mother and grandmother died from ALS when he was a child.  I don’t know that any of us really know how we would respond if we were told we have 12 months to live, the average mortality rate of his particular type of ALS.  Tim chose, according to his site, to refuse a silent death.

SO WHAT DO HIS FRIENDS DO? They create Often Awesome, an organization that helps Tim and his wife Kaylan through their journey with ALS.  They broadcast bi-weekly documentary segments about Tim online to raise awareness of ALS and to put a face on this disease.  They found the Often Awesome Army, a growing number of 1400 individuals committed to helping Tim by fundraising, donating, volunteering between nurse shifts, and spreading the word about ALS. They take his message viral on facebook and youtube.  Some have even gotten Tim’s signature swallow tattoo in honor of and in support of his cause.  What a message that sends to us all.

Scott Avett of the Avett Brothers was approached by the Often Awesome Army about helping raise money for Tim; he subsequently raised $3400 by auctioning off his original artwork online.  Scott said that using his artwork to help another has been “an awakening for me” that something as natural for him to do, like art, could serve someone in need.

Tim’s condition is so terrifying, and it conjures up a fear within me of dark days, of when we’re put to the test to truly be hopeful and truly keep our head up.  And that makes him a hero to me… (He) has a relationship with that impending end.  To conquer that fear or live with that fear or react to that fear in a positive way is how I want to be.  It’s how people should want to be.

And the effort is worth it.  “I have never seen an amount of miles put down, cash involved, people to a show, compliments in a bag ever that give you the fulfillment or reward that the quiet piece of service will doIt’s endless, and any of us can do it” Scott explains during an Often Awesome interview.   The Avett Brothers’ stage manager, Pete, was responsible for connecting the two together.  He says, “a lot of people have things, not necessarily money, but we all have a way to make a difference.  You just harness that and pull it together, and the things that can come out of that are incredible.”

It’s that commitment to making something better, to improving someone’s life through acts great and small that have really inspired me with Often Awesome.  Whether it’s recruiting the help of famous musicians, hosting community fundraising events, or raising enough money to purchase a wheelchair accessible van, this is truly an army who have channeled all of their love for Tim into something that actually makes a difference.  Their passion, energy, grit, and determination is an inspiration to all of us who are fighting for our loved ones to have a higher quality of life and have the support needed as they live with their illness or disability.

Watch the Avett Brothers and others helping raise money for Tim and watch more episodes on their Web site brought to you by AllAcesMedia.

So go, and be not simply good–be good for something.

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Journey Through Fire: ALS

I just ordered A Journey Through Fire: ALS–Memoir of a Caregiver written by local author and caregiver, Shirley A. Knight.  She chronicles the hard, arduous battle she and her husband, Bill, faced along his journey with ALS (amyotrophic lateral sclerosis, also known as Lou Gehrig’s Disease).  With a background in nursing, she details the struggles with insurance companies , the strength she found in God, and the solace she found in friends and church family.  However, in the end, the book is also about her own survival and learning to live after the death of a loved one.

Her story is of interest both from a professional perspective as well as a personal one since my own grandfather died of ALS before I was born.  I never got to meet him, though I hear stories from my 91-year old grandmother about his days working on the railroad, how he courted her on the front porch swing that I now have at my own home, and how one afternoon they eloped (as she assures me most kids did “back then”) only to go back to their own homes and wait until the next day to tell their families.  I wish that I could have known him and that he could see how his 9 grandkids and 14 great-grandchildren turned out.

My grandmother sacrificed greatly to care for him while raising my then-15 year old father.  As I’m sure this book will reveal, caregiving is not always a joy.  Caregiving is sometimes the hardest thing one can do, the ultimate demonstration of selflessness as you wade through unchartered waters, in their case knowing not that you can change the disease, but that you can change the life of the one affected by it.  You can help that person have dignity and comfort in their final chapters.  You can stand beside them and be their strength as they learn to let go of this world little by little.

According to Mrs. Knight, A Journey Through Fire is written, “as a testament to God’s promise…I have learned that life, with all its uncertainties, somehow manages to go on; that strength and courage exist for our trials beyond what we believe to be humanly possible.  It has taught me that God is faithful.  Even in his silence, He showers us with blessings“.

The ALS Association is one of those blessings. Thousands of families turn to their local chapters seeking information, resources, and assistance as a loved one is diagnosed with this ugly, deadly disease.  This association advocates for those with ALS and is one of the world’s largest funders in research for a cure.  According to their Web site, 15 people are diagnosed with this disease each day in the United States, typically between the ages of 40 and 70.  It indiscriminately affects over 30,000 Americans, regardless of race, socioeconomic background, or medical history and robs them of their future, with 80% dying within the first 5 years.   But the ALS Association is hopeful for medical advancement that will lead to a cure.

I hope you’ll join me in reading A Journey Through Fire (which you can buy here); you can also read Mrs. Knight’s interview with our community paper that introduced me to this book.  Though Mrs. Knight provides great insight to the trials of ALS, you can help rewrite the ending in our fight against ALS.

Get involved in your local ALS chapter, be it through a donation, participation in a fundraiser, or even volunteering.  Knoxville’s annual Walk to Defeat ALS is coming up September 24th.  To find one in your community visit the ALS Association, where you can find local events and help change the world.

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